Man Discovers Cancer While Trying to Donate Kidney to Wife, Now Seeks Donor for Her

Michael Bornstein was in the process of donating a kidney to his wife, Ilana, who suffers from chronic kidney disease, when he discovered he had advanced cancer. The couple, both in their 50s and parents to two teenagers, had begun the donation process after Ilana's condition worsened. Two months into the testing, Michael found a small lump on his neck, leading to a Stage 4 cancer diagnosis.

Instead of being the one to save his wife, Michael had to fight for his own life. He underwent 35 radiation sessions and intensive chemotherapy, losing 50 pounds and losing consciousness twice. During his battle, their roles reversed: Ilana, who was supposed to receive the kidney, stayed home to care for Michael and their children, while he was undergoing treatment.

"While I was fighting for my life, she dropped everything to fight by my side," Michael recounted. "She was there for me the whole way."

Now, Michael is recovering from his cancer treatments, but Ilana's struggle continues. Her kidney disease is progressing, and she is expected to start dialysis soon. After no suitable donors were found within their family and close circle, Michael has turned to the public for help.

"Today I am recovering, but she is still waiting for a kidney that can change her life," he said. He is asking people to consider checking their compatibility to donate a kidney to Ilana, either anonymously through the "Matnat Chaim" organization or by contacting him directly. He is not asking for commitments, but for people to open their hearts and see if they can help.