Israeli Mother Defends Halloween Celebrations Against Religious Criticism

Author Marcel Mousari recounts her experience celebrating Halloween with her daughter Gafen, challenging the common Israeli objections to the holiday. Initially hesitant due to widespread criticism that Halloween poses an existential threat to Judaism and is associated with violence against Jews, Mousari decided to let her daughter participate. She argues that these concerns are exaggerated, comparing Halloween to the Jewish holiday of Purim and emphasizing her family's strong Jewish and Zionist identity, which she believes is not threatened by such celebrations.

Mousari describes Gafen's enthusiasm for Halloween, her daughter's innocent reassurances about not fearing monsters, and the festive atmosphere at a friend's house where children tried on costumes. The author reflects on her own past criticisms of Halloween but ultimately prioritizes her daughter's joy and her role as a parent in making decisions. She contrasts the perceived dangers of Halloween with her family's active participation in Jewish holidays like Yom Kippur, Simchat Torah, and Passover.

Despite the holiday's controversial status in Israel, Mousari highlights the positive aspects of Halloween night, such as children engaging with each other outside of screens, visiting neighbors, sharing treats, and fostering a sense of community. She criticizes the extreme and sometimes derogatory reactions from some public figures and social media influencers, calling such extremism a negative aspect of religion and a lack of tolerance for other faiths.

After a night of trick-or-treating, Mousari posted photos online, which led to one person accusing her of teaching her daughter to worship Satan. Mousari expresses mild regret for losing this connection but stands by her decision to allow her daughter to enjoy the holiday, viewing it as a fun, child-friendly event rather than a threat to her Jewish identity.