Widow of Fallen Reservist Launches Crowdfunding to Save Family Home
Translated & summarized from Israel Hayom by baba
The widow of a reservist who died by suicide after extensive service since October 7th has launched a crowdfunding campaign to save their family home. The reservist's businesses collapsed during his service, and his wife is seeking funds to prevent foreclosure.
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- Widow seeks funds to save family home after reservist's suicide.
- Reservist served continuously for over two years after Oct 7th.
- His businesses collapsed during his extended military service.
- Family describes him as deeply affected by the war's trauma.
- Crowdfunding goal is 400,000 shekels for the home.
Ariel Konik, a lieutenant colonel in the reserves, died by suicide in March, approximately six months after the October 7th Hamas attacks. Konik, 59, had been serving intensively in reserves since October 7th, leaving his home in Ramat Gan each morning to assist in transporting commanders and soldiers to combat zones. He used his private jeep and subsequently served continuously for over two years, rarely returning home. During his service, Konik was involved in locating and collecting bodies and later entered Gaza with forces.
His wife, Talia, described him as the "strongest person in the room" who shielded them from the horrors he experienced by not speaking about them. Konik had put his personal and business life on hold, believing that rescuing hostages and rebuilding the country were paramount. Talia admitted to being angry with him for his prolonged absence and the emotional distance that grew between them, noting he became highly stressed, slept poorly, and was often visibly anxious.
Despite his outward optimism and reassurances to his family, Konik was deeply affected by the events of October 7th and the subsequent war, which his niece Daphna stated "broke him." He ultimately took his own life, with Talia expressing immense pain and understanding of his suffering. "If there is one thing in the world that could defeat Ariel, it is the terrible things that happened to our people and our country," Daphna said.
During Konik's extended reserve duty, his businesses collapsed. Now, Talia faces the potential loss of their family home in Ramat Gan, where they raised their children. She has launched a crowdfunding campaign to raise 400,000 shekels to prevent losing their home, which she described as the only place they feel security and belonging, and which represents their father to the children.
"I am not asking for pity, only mutual responsibility," Talia stated, finding it difficult to be in the position of asking for help but emphasizing the importance of preserving their home.