Family Remembers IDF Officer Harel Birnstok as Dedicated Leader and Joyful Spirit

Days after the death of Lieutenant Colonel Harel Birnstok in combat in southern Lebanon, his brother Matan shared a heartfelt interview reflecting on Harel’s life and character. Harel, the eldest sibling and family pride, was known as a commander deeply committed to the welfare of his soldiers and a person who could turn any family gathering into a celebration. Matan expressed the family’s ongoing difficulty in accepting the loss but was struck by how consistent the stories about Harel were across family, friends, colleagues, and soldiers alike.

Matan recalled a video of Harel dancing with his soldiers, showing his ability to connect with them on a personal level despite his leadership role. He described Harel as a humorous, uplifting presence both at home and in the military, beloved by nephews and family members. Harel’s first wearing of the IDF uniform was a moment of great pride for the family, and his military ceremonies were treated like major family events.

Beyond being an older brother, Harel was admired for his dedication to his soldiers’ well-being, even advocating with their employers to protect their jobs and secure raises during long reserve duty periods. The family’s last trip together was to Italy about a month before his death, during which Harel remained focused on coordinating his unit’s missions and attending to soldiers’ needs.

Matan emphasized that Harel never considered death an option, reflecting a strong belief that his life story would not end prematurely. He did not leave a farewell letter, and their last conversation, just two hours before Harel’s death, was about something as simple as ordering coffee beans. Matan wants Harel to be remembered not only for his military service but for his zest for life and prioritizing meaningful experiences. The Birnstok family also extended condolences to the family of Tamir Kanin, who fell alongside Harel, and wished a full recovery to the wounded.