Rabbis Issue Guidelines for Simchat Torah Services for Security Forces

Ahead of the Simchat Torah holiday and three years after the outbreak of war, a letter has been released urging communities to show sensitivity towards members of security and rescue forces, combatants, the wounded, and their families. The document, authored by Rabbi Shraga Nathan Dahn, who provides halachic guidance to security force veterans, along with therapists, doctors, and wounded individuals, emphasizes that Simchat Torah is not just a day of joy.

The letter highlights that the "head and soul still carry the sounds of battle, the sights of hell, the pain of loss, and the scars of injury." It outlines five key guidelines for prayer congregations and synagogue attendants (gabbaim) during the Simchat Torah hakafot (circuit dances with the Torah scrolls).

These guidelines include avoiding forcefully pulling individuals into dance circles, as a vigorous dance could trigger feelings of suffocation or emotional distress. Surprising physical contact, like a strong pat on the back or a sudden grab, might be perceived as a threat by the nervous system, potentially causing a panic reaction or combat flashback. It is also advised to keep synagogue aisles and exits clear to allow for easy access to fresh air without feeling trapped.

Regarding honors with the Torah scrolls, the letter suggests that while honoring fighters and the wounded is well-intentioned, carrying a scroll in a dense crowd or being the center of attention might be burdensome and cause trembling or anxiety for those struggling. The guidelines also address the accommodation of service dogs, noting they are life-saving tools for regulating anxiety attacks and maintaining stability. Communities are asked to arrange a comfortable, well-ventilated space, preferably near exits, for these dogs, while strictly prohibiting the public and children from approaching, petting, or feeding them to ensure the dog's professional function is not impaired.

Furthermore, the letter advises sensitivity in song and prayer selections, cautioning against loud military songs or songs of mourning that could resurface sharp pain. During the Yizkor memorial prayer, assistance should be offered to those finding it emotionally difficult to remain in the hall, and families of the fallen and wounded should be embraced. The overarching message is to maintain a balance: "Do not ignore, but do not suffocate." A genuine smile and a warm handshake saying 'Chag Sameach' (Happy Holiday) are often more valuable than any loud gesture. The letter concludes by stating that everyone's Simchat Torah will be complete only when all know their synagogue is a safe, protected, loving, and respectful place.