Why People Harbor Hatred and How Self-Reflection Can Heal Divisions
The article explores the roots of hatred and social division, emphasizing that true self-love and honest self-examination are essential to overcoming animosity toward others. It argues that many people who appear to hate or reject those different from themselves often do not admit to hatred but rather claim justified reasons for their disconnect, framing it as a lack of connection rather than outright hatred.
The author highlights that every society holds core values that are fiercely protected, such as secular tolerance, equality, family devotion, and communal commitment, even when these values clash or are criticized by opposing groups. Recognizing and respecting these values, despite disagreements, is crucial for coexistence.
A key point is that individuals who honestly acknowledge and confront their community's challenges live more authentic lives and are better able to connect with others without condescension or hatred. Conversely, those who deny their own group's problems and focus on criticizing others live in self-deception, which fosters internal dissatisfaction and external hostility.
The article stresses that the human drive to "fix the world" is natural but must begin with self-improvement and addressing one's own community's issues. This process requires courage, humility, and the willingness to lose social approval or material benefits. When people instead expend their energy trying to correct others without self-reflection, they perpetuate a cycle of falsehood and self-hatred, which easily turns into hatred of others.
The author, a director, actor, journalist, and editor of "Gdalia Mail," concludes that genuine societal repair and personal fulfillment come from turning inward first, fostering self-love, and then extending understanding to others. His recent films "Father with God" and "House with God" are available for viewing, and he welcomes contact at gilinada@gmail.com.
