Couple Gets Engaged After Losing 135 Kg Following Bariatric Surgery

About a year ago, Kiner Ofek (35) and Shay Nachmani (39) underwent bariatric surgeries in adjacent operating rooms at a hospital, unaware that the person next door would become their life partner. Exactly one year later, on the same date, Shay proposed to Kiner, who accepted. Both sought surgery to improve their health, confidence, and quality of life under the care of Dr. Ilanit Meller. Shay's surgery was initially scheduled for a different time but was postponed, resulting in their consecutive operations.

Weeks after surgery, they separately joined a post-operative support workshop at the Yarden Clinic, which shifted to Zoom due to the outbreak of war with Iran. They repeatedly found themselves in the same small discussion groups, leading Shay to reach out to Kiner to maintain contact. Their conversations evolved from weight loss and nutrition to a deep emotional connection, culminating in moving in together by late February. However, their new life together began amid wartime sirens and sheltering in a safe room.

Together, they have lost approximately 135 kilograms, but they emphasize that their relationship is about more than physical transformation. They bonded over shared experiences, fears, and successes during their weight loss journeys, which fostered a unique understanding. They credit the surgery not only for improved health but for opening a door to new lives and relationships. Their wedding is planned for October.

Research published in JAMA Surgery supports their experience, showing that individuals who were single at the time of bariatric surgery have a higher likelihood of entering relationships or marriage afterward, due to enhanced health, self-confidence, and life quality. Dr. Meller highlighted the importance of psychological adjustment and professional support throughout the process. Kiner reflected, "I once thought the surgery would save my health; today I know it gave me a new life, including the person with whom I will build a family."