Golani Commander Shilo Har-Even’s Mother Begins New Chapter as Family Honors His Heroism

On October 7, Lieutenant Colonel Shilo Har-Even, commander of the Golani Brigade’s Nahal Oz sector, led a heroic defense during a brutal attack. At 6:29 a.m., when the assault began, Shilo commanded his platoon and coordinated the fight in the kibbutzim under attack, including directing the armored vehicle crew. Despite being severely wounded, losing a hand and suffering arterial blockage, he refused evacuation and led a counterattack to retake the Nahal Oz outpost, rescuing trapped soldiers. His small, under-equipped force saved thousands of lives in the area, though 16 of his soldiers fell alongside him.

The military investigation recommended Shilo for the Medal of Valor for his courage, leadership, and self-sacrifice. His mother, Ingrid Har-Even, described him as a beloved commander who sought to improve Israel through his leadership and the values he instilled in his troops. She recalled his WhatsApp status, "I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine," symbolizing mutual responsibility and giving. Shilo, 25, left behind his parents, two brothers, and partner Tamar.

Ingrid has recently been appointed a family court judge, viewing this role as a continuation of Shilo’s legacy. She said, "His mission and mine merge," emphasizing that both leadership and judicial work involve educating and protecting others. She expressed confidence that Shilo would be proud of her new path and pledged to uphold values of humility, sensitivity, and justice in her work. Despite the family’s grief, Ingrid and her family choose to focus on life and purpose, honoring Shilo’s memory as a guiding light.

The family’s story highlights the personal sacrifice behind the October 7 battle and the ongoing impact of Shilo’s leadership and values on Israeli society.