Women From Kfar Aza Share Trauma in New Documentary

Women from the Gaza Aza kibbutz, who were part of a WhatsApp group formed after arriving at the kibbutz to be with their partners, are breaking their silence ahead of the premiere of the new documentary "Who Do You Belong To?" The film follows their recovery journey and the ongoing trauma they are experiencing. The women discuss the difficulty of returning to the kibbutz and the lasting impact of the October 7th attacks.

One participant, Elai Chogeg Golan, stated that she decided to join the film while in intensive care and rehabilitation, feeling it was important to document not only their experiences but also their understanding of the long road ahead. She emphasized that the trauma from October 7th extends far beyond the initial attack and the war in Gaza, describing it as an ongoing, multi-year event with future challenges.

Another participant, Nea Tzarfati, described the filming process as challenging but facilitated by the director Dotan Naveh's ability to create a supportive environment. She recounted the shock of seeing the finished film, which brought home the reality of their experiences. Tzarfati also noted the film highlights the often-overlooked aspect of war casualties and their rehabilitation.

Jessica Timmer shared that the director became like a friend, making it easier to discuss painful topics. The women have been living in temporary mobile homes in Kibbutz Ruhama for nearly two years, a situation intended to last 18 months. Their return to Kfar Aza is uncertain, as the kibbutz is not yet ready to house all residents. They have been granted an extension until July 2027 to decide their future living arrangements, with some considering returning to Kfar Aza and others seeking new lives elsewhere.

The WhatsApp group, which connected them, remains a vital source of support. The women describe their bond as a powerful force providing stability, comfort, and understanding amidst their current instability. They see the group as a true support network and a shared destiny, where they can understand each other implicitly.