Reality Star Sapir Bar Gili Shares Emotional Update on Past Trauma

Reality television personality Sapir Bar Gili has shared a new, emotional update on Instagram regarding alleged past abuse by her ex-partner, Avraham Aclom. Bar Gili, who previously revealed details of the alleged abuse during a joint vacation in Rhodes, stated that what she has shared so far is only a fraction of the story.

In a series of Instagram stories, Bar Gili explained that some parts of the experience are still too difficult for her to articulate. She described how some memories can be spoken about with laughter, others cause her voice to change, and some remain unspoken because her body has not yet allowed her to translate them into words. "Anyone who listens closely will sometimes hear the story in my silences," she wrote, adding that while her mind knows it's over, her body remembers places her heart still fears to visit. She concluded that the parts she can speak about are only those she can "survive out loud," while the rest she is "still learning to survive in silence."

Bar Gili indicated her intention to move forward and focus on her life, stating that one day she might be able to share more when she is ready. She asserted that her ex-partner and the situation are "not worth my time."

This follows a difficult separation from Aclom less than a year after their marriage. Bar Gili filed a police complaint against Aclom, though the case was closed in June 2026. Aclom maintained his innocence, accusing Bar Gili of attempting to harm his reputation. Bar Gili, however, stated the case was closed due to "lack of evidence," not an acquittal, and that it did not negate her account of events. Their divorce proceedings also became protracted, involving accusations of refusal to grant a get (divorce document) and deliberate delays by Aclom.