Psychologist Advocates Physical Distance to Strengthen Relationship on Israeli Reality Show
On the Israeli reality show "Married at First Sight," a therapeutic debate emerged regarding the role of physical touch in building intimacy. Clinical psychologist Gilad Horowitz appeared on Keshet 12's "Morning News" with host Niv Reskin to discuss a question raised by the show's former psychologist, Danny Friedlander: why do psychologists sometimes recommend physical distance when the goal is to foster closeness?
Horowitz explained that in some relationships, partners cling tightly out of fear of losing connection, which provides temporary comfort but hinders genuine growth. He likened this to briefly opening an accordion to create breathing room. Controlled physical distance allows couples to see each other more clearly, including their strengths and weaknesses, and proves the relationship can withstand complexities without falling apart.
Specifically, Horowitz advised the couple Sofi and Dor to take a step back physically. This approach helped them lower their defenses, better understand their individual needs, and build a mature, long-term partnership not based on total dependence. The discussion highlighted how maintaining some physical space can paradoxically deepen emotional intimacy and stability in symbiotic relationships.
The segment aired on Sunday morning, sparking interest in the therapeutic strategy of "touch preservation" as a tool for relationship development on the popular show.
