Israeli Actor Adam Gabay Reflects on Life, Loss, and Lifelong Passion for Theater
Adam Gabay, an Israeli actor born in Baghdad, recounts his journey from a privileged childhood in Iraq to a modest life in Haifa after immigrating to Israel at age three due to anti-Jewish violence. His father, a fabric merchant who owned a large villa in Baghdad, managed to transfer some funds to Israel and bought a small apartment where the family of six lived. Gabay fondly remembers his childhood, his father's work ethic, and the values of equality and open communication his father instilled in him.
Tragedy struck when Gabay's father was brutally murdered in his Haifa grocery store by an Arab-Christian customer over a debt dispute. Gabay, then serving in the army, learned of the murder through a newspaper, a traumatic experience that shaped his worldview. Despite the violence, Gabay maintains his belief in equality and refuses to judge people based on ethnicity.
Gabay's passion for theater began in childhood, inspired by performances with Israeli stars like Chaim Topol. He studied theater and psychology at university, initially uncertain about his career path but soon committed to acting. He worked with renowned playwright Hanoch Levin and appeared in provocative plays that challenged audiences. In the 1980s, Gabay participated in Hollywood productions filmed in Israel, including "Rocky III," which fueled his interest in an international career, though he chose to remain active in Israeli theater and film.
He shares a long-lasting relationship with his partner, Dafna, whom he met near Dizengoff Center 35 years ago. Gabay is a devoted father but admits he is more focused on work than on being a hands-on grandfather. He also discusses his experiences with popular Israeli TV series like "Shtisel" and "Kugel," highlighting their global success and cultural impact.
Gabay worked extensively with his son Adam in the Broadway production of "The Band's Visit," touring the U.S. for several years. He reflects on the challenges and rewards of acting alongside his son, emphasizing Adam's independent talent. Gabay also comments on Israeli cultural politics, criticizing attempts to restrict artistic freedom and defending the importance of diverse voices in film and theater.
At 78, Gabay embraces his age without letting it define him, maintaining a youthful curiosity and eagerness to learn. He continues to act and direct, recently returning to a classic Israeli production of "Peter Pan," playing Captain Hook. Gabay sees himself as a lifelong learner and artist, committed to exploring new roles and ideas despite the challenges of the modern world and political climate.
