Israeli 'Parliaments' Offer Social Lifeline for Seniors
Across Israel, a unique tradition known as 'parliament' brings together groups of mostly elderly individuals for regular, often weekly, meetings. These gatherings, typically held in cafes or private homes, serve as vital social hubs, combating loneliness, maintaining friendships, and fostering a sense of relevance.
The term 'parliament,' derived from the French word for 'talk,' refers to these informal assemblies where long-time acquaintances converse for hours. Historically, similar intellectual salons existed in Paris, like the famous Café de Flore, frequented by literary and artistic figures. Early Israeli 'parliaments' also emerged in Tel Aviv and Jerusalem before the state's establishment, attracting poets and artists to cafes like Kasit and Tirtza.
Today, these groups, often predominantly male and composed of individuals aged 60 and above, discuss personal, social, and political matters. While some parliaments focus on specific interests like sports or culture, others engage in broader discussions. For instance, the 'Parliament of Moish' in Tel Aviv, attended by actors and journalists, includes younger members like the son of one participant, and discusses current events and arts.
Some participants, like Shuki Ben Ami, a founder of the 'Jerusalem Parliament' which has met for 40 years, emphasize the intellectual stimulation and camaraderie these groups provide. Ben Ami's group, which was removed from a radio program for discussing sensitive political topics, now meets in Jerusalem and hosts public discussions on current affairs. He notes that while political debates can be divisive, his group focuses on presenting facts, with most members disagreeing with current government policies.
In contrast, a parliament in Umm al-Fahm, led by cafe owner Mahamid Nizar, discusses the dire security situation in the Arab community, expressing concern over daily violence and a lack of police intervention. Women also have their own 'parliaments,' such as a group of ten women from Afula who have met for 30 years, emphasizing mutual support and shared life experiences. Another Afula group, led by former sports teacher Arik Katz, focuses on sports and current events, often inviting sports personalities to speak.
