IDF Rabbi Reveals PTSD Struggle After Identifying War Dead

Rabbi Menachem Perl, head of the Tzomet Institute and former head of the Halakha Branch in the Military Rabbinate, has revealed his struggle with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) following months of work identifying bodies and preparing them for burial during the Swords of Iron War. In an interview with Yedioth Ahronoth, Rabbi Perl, a retired Lieutenant Colonel, described how he sought to contribute to the war effort on October 7th. He contacted the Chief Military Rabbi, Rabbi Eyal Karim, who assigned him to assist in identifying fallen soldiers and civilians at the Shura camp.

Perl's work involved prolonged exposure to horrific scenes and interactions with grieving families, which took a heavy emotional toll. After about two months, he began receiving support from mental health officers. A particularly difficult moment occurred when he discovered he was identifying the son of an employee from his institute, an event that led him to request release from his duties.

Following his service, Rabbi Perl sought psychological treatment through the Ministry of Defense's Rehabilitation Department. His condition worsened, leading to anxiety attacks, nightmares, and other trauma-related reactions. After experiencing a severe anxiety attack abroad, he was hospitalized and underwent further treatment, including psychiatric care and rehabilitation at a farm. He now also uses a service dog. "I never thought I would go to a psychiatrist. What, am I crazy? But I understand today that it definitely helps," he stated.

Rabbi Perl noted that triggers such as images, stories, or even smells can resurface his traumatic experiences, sometimes manifesting in nightmares. Inspired by his personal journey, he is now involved with the "HaBayit" (The Home) organization to establish a specialized rehabilitation framework for religious and Haredi soldiers dealing with PTSD. He believes existing frameworks need adaptation to suit the lifestyle and religious needs of these individuals, citing issues like gender separation, activity types, and the treatment environment.

The article also features "Arie," a 31-year-old Haredi man from Bnei Brak, who served in a unit identifying casualties. He reported difficulties returning to his work and family life after his service. "Arie," who has been recognized as suffering from PTSD, has left several treatment programs due to their incompatibility with his Haredi lifestyle. He echoed Rabbi Perl's sentiment that a tailored facility could enable more soldiers to receive necessary care without compromising their religious observance.