Shimon Hai Ben Shahar Remembers Rabbi Naomi Hadari’s Grace and Kindness in Jerusalem

Shimon Hai Ben Shahar reflects on his decades-long acquaintance with Rabbi Naomi Hadari, wife of the late Rabbi Yeshayahu Hadari, head of the Western Wall Yeshiva. From his childhood in Jerusalem’s Old City, Ben Shahar recalls the sanctity of the yeshiva and the special people who lived there, including the Hadari family. His closer relationship with Rabbi Naomi began when, as a 12-year-old boy, he helped her with Passover cleaning. Despite his small contribution, she lavished him with sincere praise, making him feel valued and appreciated for years afterward.

Ben Shahar describes the Hadari home as noble and regal, reflecting the character of its inhabitants. He recounts how Rabbi Naomi’s rare ability to make each person feel unique and important left a lasting impression on many, including Rabbi Wider, who spoke movingly at her funeral. Although Ben Shahar initially refused payment for his help, a compromise was reached to credit him at a local bookstore, where he still treasures books purchased with those credits.

After Rabbi Yeshayahu Hadari’s passing, Ben Shahar named his son Yeshayahu in his honor. The family continued to visit Rabbi Naomi for Shabbat blessings, where she warmly remembered their names, lives, and family connections. Even during her final months, she demonstrated remarkable memory and grace, recalling visits and family details. Ben Shahar concludes by expressing gratitude for Rabbi Naomi’s kindness, nobility, and inspiration, noting that her passing dims a special light in Jerusalem but also elevates its spiritual legacy.