Mother of Slain Hostage Sends Message of Support to Soldier on Trial

Iris Haim, mother of Yotam Haim, who was mistakenly killed by Israeli forces in Gaza along with two other hostages, has publicly offered words of encouragement to reservist soldier Aviad Frijja. Frijja is currently facing trial for allegedly mistakenly shooting and killing Yuval Castelman during a deadly terror attack at the entrance to Jerusalem on October 7th, as Frijja was entering the scene to neutralize terrorists.

Haim, whose son Yotam was also killed by friendly fire in Gaza, stated that she harbors no anger towards soldiers operating under impossible combat conditions. She wrote on Facebook that Frijja was acting to defend Israelis and search for hostages, and that he eliminated two terrorists, preventing further casualties. "I wish the story would end here," she added, referencing the attack.

She drew a parallel between the death of Castelman and her son, noting that both were "heroes." Haim explained that while the pain of her son's loss is constant, anger and blame would not bring him back and would only lead to more death. She expressed empathy for Frijja and his family, stating, "Everyone could have found themselves in your shoes." Haim concluded her message with "Hold on. I am with you."

Her statement comes as Frijja's trial progresses. Last week, a key prosecution witness, Border Police Sergeant Adib Mansour, testified that Castelman only revealed his Israeli identity after the shooting had stopped. Mansour stated he had aimed his weapon at Castelman out of concern he might be a bomber, emphasizing he took no chances. This testimony is seen as significant, potentially refuting claims that shooting continued after Castelman presented his ID, and supporting the defense's argument that Frijja acted in good faith and saved many lives.