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Culture09:28 · Jun 15

Bride at First Sight Pair Faces “Madonna Complex” Reveal as Another Couple Struggles at the Beach

By אפרת קרסנר
Translated & summarized from Srugim by baba
The story · English

In the latest episode of “Marriage at First Sight,” broadcast on Sunday night, Liki and Tomer reached a major turning point after Tomer admitted to her that he is attracted to her, but only in a “non-sexual” way. He had already hinted at this paradox in the previous episode, but this time he said it directly to Liki, making the conversation awkward and painful for both of them.

Tomer then named what he believes is behind the problem, saying he likely suffers from the “Madonna complex,” also known as the Madonna and whore complex. The article explains the term as a psychological state in which a man cannot feel sexual attraction to a woman he sees as pure, respectable, or sacred. It cites Sigmund Freud’s formulation: “When such men love, they have no passion, and when such men have passion, they cannot love.”

The piece says Tomer deserves credit for his honesty, since it is better not to live in denial. But it also warns that if he cannot work through this issue, the couple’s chances of staying together are almost nonexistent, because he does not seem able to see Liki as a full partner. During the episode, Liki was shown falling into a deep crisis after the confession, which the article says is understandable and serious for the relationship’s future.

The episode also cut to the beach, where Noa and Ari’s relationship problems seemed much simpler by comparison. Noa felt Ari was a bit “dry” in his responses and wanted him to be more proactive and energetic. The article describes Ari as quiet and reserved, but also stable and worthwhile, and says he deserves a genuine chance. It ends by hoping Noa will slow down and give him that opportunity before it is too late.

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