Former Haredi Youth Find New Purpose Through Surfing After Leaving Yeshiva
In Israel, a parliamentary vote on a bill to exempt yeshiva students from IDF service is expected to reignite debates about the impact of military service on ultra-Orthodox youth and concerns over religious dropout. However, less attention is given to the challenges faced by young Haredim who leave the yeshiva system before army age and often lack support frameworks.
Estimates suggest that one in ten Haredi young men experience some form of dropout from the traditional yeshiva path before turning 18. Two individuals, identified as Avi and Sarah (pseudonyms), share their stories of leaving the Haredi world, confronting uncertainty, and seeking belonging. Avi, 22, from Jerusalem’s Ramat Shlomo neighborhood, left yeshiva at 18 and struggled with finding his way, working various jobs and completing his matriculation exams. After joining a pre-army preparatory program for former Haredim and enlisting in the IDF, he moved to Netanya where he discovered the nonprofit "My Wave," which uses surfing as a therapeutic tool to foster resilience and personal growth.
Avi described surfing not just as a sport but as a metaphor for overcoming fear and building confidence amid life’s challenges. The organization provides a supportive community that helps participants develop inner strength and a sense of belonging.
Sarah, 23, from Beit Shemesh, faced family upheaval and religious exclusion during adolescence. Despite opposition, she pursued higher education and enlisted in the IDF, serving in a combat role during the October 7 conflict. After completing her service, she joined "My Wave" in Netanya, finding acceptance and a new way to process her experiences through surfing. She travels from Jerusalem regularly to participate, emphasizing the personal value she gains from the program.
Both stories highlight the difficulties of transitioning from the Haredi world and the unique role that unconventional activities like surfing can play in providing support and rebuilding identity for those who leave the community.
